How to Actually Enjoy Your Wedding Day: 15 Tips from a Wedding Photographer
- Emma Blue
- Nov 6
- 3 min read
Updated: 6 days ago
As a wedding photographer based out of Raleigh, NC, I’ve had the honor of documenting love stories all over the country. One thing I’ve learned after photographing countless celebrations? The couples who look the happiest in their wedding photos aren’t just lucky—it’s because they made intentional choices that set them up for a joyful, stress-free day.
If you’re in the thick of wedding planning, here are 15 practical ways to feel more present, relaxed, and radiant on your wedding day.
1. Choose a Wedding Party with Good Energy
Your wedding party sets the tone for the day. Surround yourself with people who bring encouragement, laughter, and calm energy so you can feel supported and joyful from start to finish.
2. Prioritize Time with Your Partner
Wedding days can be a whirlwind, and it’s easy to feel pulled in a million directions. Making intentional space to connect with your partner allows you to soak in the magic of the day together.
3. Collaborate with Vendors on a Timeline That Works for You
A thoughtful timeline can make or break your wedding day experience. Work closely with your photographer, planner, and other vendors to design a schedule that balances your priorities with natural flow.
4. Do a Hair and Makeup Trial
Looking and feeling your best comes down to preparation. A hair and makeup trial ensures you love the look, and it reduces stress on the morning of your wedding.
5. Set Flatlay Details Aside in Advance
Your detail photos tell the story of your day just as much as the big moments! Avoid scrambling around the bridal suite the morning of your wedding or forgetting an important keepsake by setting aside the items you want included ahead of time.
6. Create a Family Shot List
Family photos can be some of the most meaningful—but also the most time-consuming—parts of the day. A clear shot list keeps things efficient and ensures no one gets left out.
7. Make a Rain Plan
Weather is unpredictable, especially for outdoor weddings in North Carolina and beyond. Having a solid rain plan helps you relax knowing your day will be beautiful no matter what.
8. Talk to Your Photographer About Sunset Timing
Lighting makes all the difference in photography! Consulting with your photographer about sunset on your wedding date can help you plan a ceremony start time that leaves plenty of space for photos during that beautiful golden hour window.
9. Let Go of What You Can’t Control
No matter how much planning you put in ahead of time, chances are something will not be the way you envisioned on the big day. Keep your focus on being present with your people and celebrating you and your partner's love! Embracing the unexpected moments allows you to stay present, and those authentic emotions will shine through in your photos.
10. Build in Buffer Time
Even the best-planned days run behind schedule. Adding buffer time into your timeline gives you breathing room and lets you savor the little moments without rushing.
11. Choose Music That Feels Like You & Get on the Dance Floor!
The soundtrack of your day sets the mood. Rather than pick from a "Top Wedding Hits" playlist, choose music that feels like you and is reflective of you and your partner's story. This is your day!
12. Eat Dinner (Seriously!)
It sounds simple, but many couples forget to sit down and enjoy the meal they spent months planning. Taking the time to eat helps you recharge and be ready for the celebration ahead.
13. Collaborate with Your Photographer on Your Vision
Every couple has a unique vision for their wedding photos. Sharing inspiration and priorities ahead of time helps your photographer capture images that align with what you have in mind!
14. Incorporate Sentimental Details
From a classic getaway car that belonged to your grandpa to handwritten vows, small personal touches make your day even more deeply meaningful.
15. Keep the Focus on the Marriage
At the end of the day, your wedding is about your love and commitment. Keeping that perspective helps you relax, have fun, and truly enjoy every moment.
Final Thoughts
Your wedding day doesn’t have to feel like a blur. With a little preparation and the right mindset, you can be fully present, soak in every moment, and—yes—look genuinely happier in your photos.
As a Raleigh-based destination wedding photographer, my passion is helping couples feel relaxed, connected, and authentically themselves on their wedding day. If you’re planning your wedding and want timeless, true-to-color photography that captures both the big moments and the little in-between ones, I’d love to connect with you! Click HERE to inquire.
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